tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15109540.post8026745312831117552..comments2023-11-14T06:12:19.379-05:00Comments on I'm Just a Girl...: Being provocative isn't a sin...maybe you're uncomfortable in your own skin!Rebeccahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00747583945280534950noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15109540.post-51792456749926725832007-05-26T09:59:00.000-04:002007-05-26T09:59:00.000-04:00Thurs. I was preparing the yard and house for my l...Thurs. I was preparing the yard and house for my little guys party on Sunday and I spent the day playing 36 holes of golf in NH yesterday, so I am late to this topic. <BR/><BR/>I have always had this policy...it goes both ways.<BR/><BR/>Don't ask, don't tell.<BR/><BR/>Every relationship is different, so you can't base anything on what happened in a prior relationship. Also, you can never relax sexually if you are constantly comparing or being compared to other people or encounters. <BR/><BR/>Live in the present, always. <BR/><BR/>Plus, I don't want anyone knowing about my past encounters. If my wife "asked" she may have rethought the whole marriage thing *smile*.David Sullivanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06847923057333798936noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15109540.post-68615402547393969612007-05-25T17:21:00.000-04:002007-05-25T17:21:00.000-04:00Hi all -Thanks for chiming in - good to get a man'...Hi all -<BR/>Thanks for chiming in - good to get a man's opinion on it. Although BWH, while I do agree with you on that men aren't judged harshly enough, I do think that no one should be judged, period. <BR/><BR/>And Suldog - we'll have to agree to disagree. Like I said - who wants to compete with a ghost? Which essentially all someone who isn't in the picture anymore, becomes. No one even really remembers the specifics!! :)Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00747583945280534950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15109540.post-47318449438827350412007-05-25T12:21:00.000-04:002007-05-25T12:21:00.000-04:00I'll disagree to a certain extent. Some men may wa...I'll disagree to a certain extent. Some men may want to know about the past so that they know what kind of competition they might be expected to measure up to. Whether that's a silly thing or not, that could be the case, not just for the other reason you mentioned.Suldoghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07778845367184916684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15109540.post-72603888047014093312007-05-25T03:38:00.000-04:002007-05-25T03:38:00.000-04:00Wrong wrong wrong wrong.Sorry, I don't make my own...Wrong wrong wrong wrong.<BR/><BR/>Sorry, I don't make my own rules. This makes me disagree with most of this rant.<BR/><BR/>The problem is men not being judged harshly, not women being judged too harshly.bigwhitehathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05378526701377764387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15109540.post-10522324137243171412007-05-24T21:41:00.000-04:002007-05-24T21:41:00.000-04:00I really have to agree with you on this one, excep...I really have to agree with you on this one, except to point out the only possible exception I can think of and that would be for <I>both</I> people to get blood tests to ensure that both are HIV free. You can never be too careful these days.<BR/><BR/>Personally, my ex had several boyfriends before she met me and had experience with sexual intercourse, while my experience was severely lacking (read: nonexistent.) When the topic of her past relationships came up, as it did from time to time, it seemed to me that she was trying to apolgize for them. <BR/><BR/>I would always tell her that I didn't care (or more precisely that it was of no consequence to me) what she did in the past but it was the present that mattered. What was important to me was what went on between us, now.Timhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12498898076985012831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15109540.post-19136081065666285052007-05-24T16:38:00.000-04:002007-05-24T16:38:00.000-04:00I totally agree with you on that one. I've been ju...I totally agree with you on that one. I've been judged and the funniest thing about that was it was because that said person jumped to conclusions and didn't even realize it was fabricated. Then again..this person was a total loony bin. I think it was guilt on the loony bin's sideSusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519224953463428308noreply@blogger.com